33 questions to help you fall in love with your significant other

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Falling in love is a process. A beautiful process that lets you meet another person in such a deeply meaningful way. At times it might seem scary, overwhelming, and too personal, but that is what is special about it – you are letting someone in, while they allow you to get to know them. These 33 questions are meant to help you fall in love with your significant other (S.O.). They are meant to be the starting point if you don’t know how to approach the matter. 

But what if you are already married or in a long term relationship? What if you are already in love? Well… these questions will also help you fall BACK in love with your S.O. 

Sometimes life gets busy, schedules don’t align, and things get complicated but that doesn’t mean you don’t love each other anymore. You just need a moment-space-time in your schedule to be together. Not in a physical way, but in a sentimental one. Think of it as a check up on each other and your relationship’s wellbeing. 

We got the inspiration for doing this after reading an article and watching a video about it. The idea is to get closer to each other and increase or create the intimacy that allows you to talk about deeper things or connect more.

We had a lovely time going through these ourselves and it was interesting to discover how some things have changed as we grow together and that there were things we didn’t know! Even after 6 years, many trips, mutual projects, and a 7-month quarantine of being together! 

So grab a drink and let’s get to it! 

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33 QUESTIONS TO FALL (BACK) IN LOVE WITH YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER

1. Out of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest? 
2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
4. What does your “perfect day” look like?
5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want? 
7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
8. Name 3 things you and your partner appear to have in common.
9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
11. Tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible in five minutes. 
12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future, or anything else, what would you want to know?
14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? why haven’t you done it?
15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
16. What do you value most in a friendship?
17. What is your most treasured memory?
18. What is your most terrible memory?
19. What does friendship mean to you?
20. What roles do love and affection play in your life?
21. Take turns to share 5 things you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. 
22. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?
23. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?
24. Make 3 true “we” statements each. For example: “We are both trying to connect more”. 
25. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share…”. 
26. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.
27. Tell your partner what you like about them. Be very honest and try to say things you might not say to someone you just met.
28. Share an embarrassing moment in your life.
29. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
30. Tell your partner something you like about them already.
31. What is too serious to be joked about? 
32. Your house catches on fire. After saving your loved ones and pets you have time to save one item. What would it be? why?
33. Ask your partner for advice on how he or she might handle a personal problem you are having. Also, ask them how they think you are feeling/handling it. 

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